Talking less is not only rethinking about what you want to say, but restraining yourself from speaking what is unnecessary. It’s not a secret that now in the modern world, people talk too much and it sometimes cause a disunity among the society. A wise person guard his mouth carefully, restraining it from leaking the secrets of others, speaking unnecessary thing and controlling his tongue.
In the modern era, disunity happens here and there. One of the biggest cause is the loose mouth of the people.
Those who are talking without thinking more about what they say often cause harm and offend others while doing so.You mouth will either become your blessing or your curse. It depends on how much you are able to control them. Many people getting themselves in problem just because he can’t control their mouth.
In fact, in our information-driven world, how much you know makes more difference to your long-term success than how much money you have or almost anything else. A person who's talking is giving away information--often more than he or she intended. A person who's listening is receiving information.
Abraham Lincoln once said, "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt." I'm not suggesting you remain silent all the time. But it's all too easy to speak thoughtlessly, with insufficient information, or out of a wrong assumption. That can make you look less intelligent than you are, and you will minimize the chances of it happening if you listen more than you speak.
If you constantly share your opinions, no one will seek them out. If you only say what you're thinking on occasion, or only make a point one time instead of over and over, your words are likely to have more weight .To be clear, I'm not suggesting that you always keep your opinions to yourself. The people around you need to know what you're thinking, doubly so if you're in a leadership role. But if you spend more time listening than you do speaking, so that the people you're speaking to feel understood and bonded with you, when you do speak your mind, they'll be listening much more closely.